I hate mornings. No, I REALLY hate mornings. It takes my brain several hours to figure out that my body is actually out of bed and moving. But, with all of my hatred of mornings, I’ve realized that if I get up “early” than I have a better day. I kind of figure that most of you hate mornings too. After all, not all of us are like my little brother and Smarty Pants, bouncing out of bed to greet the morning with a loud roaring “Hello” and a huge smile.
I think I have found out how to have a good morning (for me). Obviously you’re morning may look differently, but one thing that won’t be different is that if you have a routine and stick to it every day, your mornings will go smoother!
My alarm goes off at 5:45 am. I turn it off, bleary eyed and then I sit up in bed. I have found that if I don’t sit up, I go right back to sleep! I begin to pray, praising Him is a priority. I thank Him for things that make my life easier (think microwave, stove, COFFEE!), and I ask Him to help me be the best wife, mother, daughter, and friend that I can be.
At 6:00 am my alarm goes off again. That’s just in case I fell asleep while praying – hey, stop laughing! I do that all of the time!!!
I stumble to the bathroom, with my eyes still closed. Papi is usually finishing getting ready for the day. (The man doesn’t go to sleep until way after I do and still gets up at 4:30 am. There are moments I hate him – just kidding) I grab a bunch of dirty clothes from the hamper, my glasses, and my cell phone and stumble my way into the laundry room; clicking on lights in every room. (That makes Papi crazy, he turns off the lights as fast as I turn them on.) I start a load of laundry (my first of the day) and it’s just past 6 am.
After I’ve started the load of laundry (I make sure the washer and dryer are empty before I go to bed for just this reason), I grab my first cup of coffee for the day and sit down in the living room with my bible, my journal, a pen, and my cup of coffee. I read 5 Psalms, 1 Proverb, 1 chapter from the New Testament, and a bible study (either my Sunday School lesson or one of the myriad devotions I’ve gotten hold of). By the time I have finished that and my first cup of coffee, it’s a quarter to 7.
I put my morning devotion things away and head off to the girls room at my first attempt to wake Barbie up. She has clearly inherited my hatred of the morning sun. I go back to the kitchen, refill my coffee, and write all of the information on the FAQ board for the day. Our FAQ board is a marker board on which I write the menu for the day, the weather, Prayer Requests, Cleaning Goals, the date, and any special things going on that day that might change the schedule in any way. I also switch the wet load of laundry to the dryer and start a new load. Yay! I’ve started my second load of laundry already!
I then go and re-shake Barbie, gently announce to the other girls that it is time to get up, and head to the boys room to get them up and moving. And this is when the insanity starts. By now I’ve been up for over an hour, and my brain is starting to get the idea that WE ARE UP! I sit down at the computer to check if I have any emails that need immediate action and check our bank account for the day (just a safety precaution). For the next half hour I am calling children to me to check if they have their morning stuff done. Barbie needs to wake up, work in her faith journal, shower, get dressed, make her bed and start her math. BAM! needs to do the same (except for the math part). Kissy needs to wake up, do her morning devotion, shower, get dressed, and strip her bed (if necessary) and make her bed. The boys all need to wake up, brush their hair and teeth, wash their faces, get dressed, make their beds, and do their morning devotions. It is utter insanity. All of this is done with 2 bathrooms!!! 😉
As I see that everyone is up and moving in at least a semblance of alertness, I jump into the shower and get myself ready. I also make my own bed. Then I head back into the kitchen. If Nana hasn’t made breakfast yet, or if she needs help, I dive right in. Once breakfast is ready, I call the kids to the table with an officials whistle. It’s loud, and that way I don’t scream. It scares Simon our greyhound to death though, so I try to make sure he is outside. We eat our breakfast the 7 of us, as a family. Nana leaves for work right after I jump into the shower. After I am done eating, I read to the children as they are finishing. At the moment we are reading The Yearling. It’s a great book about growing up in Florida waaaaayyyyyy back in the day. As we are studying Florida in school, I thought it was apropos. We’ll be going from this one to books about Christian Heroes and Martyrs.
After everyone is finished eating breakfast, then we do a 15 minute pick up. They each have chores in the kitchen, and I’m folding the clean laundry and starting my third load of the day. Whomever doesn’t have kitchen chores that day (they take turns) helps me by putting the laundry away. After the 15 minute pick up is done, we all congregate in the living room with our Bibles and have a quick family devotion.
Exhausted yet? That’s when we start school! And that’s my morning folks. I hate them. But I find if they go smoothly, so does our day.
So, your turn. What does your morning look like? Do you hate mornings as much as I do????